Thursday 5 January 2012

How Can I Change?

We all want to change certain aspects of our lives: have a closer relationship with our parents, help our children to let go of their addiction, increase our income, reduce our weight or find a new career. Guess what, here is the paradox: You can only change Citrix 1Y0-A24 practice test as much as you are willing to let go.
The nature of change
Change is, in fact, inevitable. Everything we observe in nature is changing in front of our eyes. Some things we are able to see and some are going on unnoticed and might therefore appear to stay the same. The reason for this is the speed at which things are changing.
I want to change now!
In ourselves we often want change to happen much faster than is possible or we fear change when it is occurring too fast. Change is a process, which happens over time. Different areas in life, just like in nature, take different amounts of time to transform.
Clients come to see me to support them in making changes or adapting to the changes that are CIW 1D0-510 practice test happening. Depending on their personalities they either can't wait for change to happen or need more time than the situation allows them. In my work this means on one level adjusting people expectations and on another level finding resources to manage transformation.
Letting go
In both scenarios described above it is about letting go of fear or control. Whether you can't wait for change to happen or run and hide when it's coming, it helps to loosen the tight grip you have around the way things need to be or the way you expect the outcome.
A mother wanting her daughter to be more well-behaved might need to let go of her tight hold. An employee wishing to be better skilled in their job might have to let go of his expectations of being able to do everything right. A couple desiring to conceive a child might need to let go of what hasn't worked until now and embrace alternative routes.
I am changing
Change is inevitable. You grow older, put on weight, gain more knowledge and wisdom, show more wrinkles, are less bothered by what people think and more annoyed at how quirky your parents have 190-510 become.
'If you love somebody, set them free' is one of Sting's song titles. You can change by setting yourself free of your tightly held beliefs, values, habits, views or expectations. Loving yourself means setting yourself free.

No comments:

Post a Comment

Note: only a member of this blog may post a comment.