Friday 23 December 2011

Take Charge Of Your Life - Stop The Blame Game!

STOP THE BLAME GAME
Have you challenged your belief system lately? Have you had a reason too? Is life going well for you? If it is, that is something to be very grateful about. If it isn't, Dell DC0-280 question that also is something to be grateful about. Really? Yes, really! Because it gives you the time and space to re-evaluate some areas in our lives and make some changes. We didn't get to where we are in our thinking (our belief system) and our behavior without help. There have been years and years of conditioning from the parents, grandparents, neighbors, friends, television, radio, music choices that have been made for us, the environment that we grew up in, teachers, etc. But if your circumstances are less than desirable for you at this time, it's your time, now, to take responsibility for your thoughts and your behavior and your life. If you are not pleased with who you know yourself to be; you need to make changes. Change is good. Don't be afraid of it. It's time now to be Refreshed, Refueled and Refired!
It's time to replace the old attitudes and mindsets that no longer produce the results you desire. It's time to stop looking to somebody else to do what only you can do for yourself. It's time to look beyond the hurt, and beyond the people and circumstances and start a regimen called self-improvement. Look in the mirror. What do you see?
First look on the outside, then dig deeper. What do you see on the inside? Identify what you don't like and make the commitment to change. This does not have to be a hard process. You make it harder by procrastination and by using that awful word "can't". And, when you put "I" before it, you just nullify any attempts you make, will end up in failure.
We are not Dell DC0-260 question here merely to be somebody else's happiness, they are not here to be the source of our happiness. For too long we have believed the lie, that our happiness is tied to someone else. Let the lie go.
God created all human beings: He has placed us among other spiritual attributes, like JOY. Joy is not tied to our emotions, contrary to popular belief; it is tied to our soul. External things cannot steal your joy unless you choose to let it go. We are created to be giving vessels. We need to give away the intangible things into the lives of others, things like kindness, love, peace, joy, etc., but we must also practice these things for ourselves as well.
We cannot and should not allow ourselves to get lost in the maze of bitterness, or hatred, or anger, cheating, lying etc. We are very valuable and we can survive even if no other human being ever realizes our real worth. As long as you know have value, you will operate from that frame of mind. Therefore planting in the lives of others becomes a joy not a chore, and because you are doing it without sacrificing your own needs, you help to make your life and the lives of others much more pleasant. Too often we attribute anything we don't like about ourselves and our lives to the charge of another.
When you stop blaming others for the state you find yourself in, you will pick up your own chisel and begin a work on yourself. When you finally give yourself that much needed time to rest and be alone with your own thoughts you might be surprised to find out about all OMG-OCUP-100 the things you did not know about yourself. There is spiritual guide inside of you. You need to be in touch with him. The real you on the inside will help you take responsibility for your self. You don't have to blame anyone for any aspect of your life. Not even yourself, because, after all, you hold the key to changing what you don't like.

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